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Hello,
I'm led in bed as I write this because I feel sick with anxiety and cant sleep. I feel over come with guilt and sheer dread.
I've recently been through a difficult relationship break up which has left me looking after my 4 year old and two dogs on my own whilst working full time. Things were getting so difficult and stressful and on top of me I knew something had to give and I thought about finding better homes for the dogs so they could have a better quality of life with families that could give them the time they deserve. Earlier in the week I made an advert and a lovely family contacted me interested in my lovely cavapoo girl I've had since she was a pup. They came to meet her, fell in love, bought her new things and they had a little girl who was just so excited. At heart wrenching as it was for me, I found comfort in the fact they were such a lovely family and would be spoiling her.
So this morning was the day I was to be dropping her off with her new family. We agreed a time and I started getting all of her things ready to take with her. All of a sudden my emotions got on top of me, I completely broke down, had a panic attack and the thought of never seeing her again was killing me!!! And now I have let this poor family down last minute, no doubt broken this little girls heart and I've caused them so much upset and grief I can't help but feel sick with pure guilt and hate towards myself. What do I do
I have a family friend that has seen the struggle I've been through today and theyve agreed to look after my dogs until I'm in a more stable situation. This wasnt an option that was on the table before today otherwise I would have chosen to do that before!!
Please can anyone offer some words of comfort as I just feel like the worst person in the world right now
I'm led in bed as I write this because I feel sick with anxiety and cant sleep. I feel over come with guilt and sheer dread.
I've recently been through a difficult relationship break up which has left me looking after my 4 year old and two dogs on my own whilst working full time. Things were getting so difficult and stressful and on top of me I knew something had to give and I thought about finding better homes for the dogs so they could have a better quality of life with families that could give them the time they deserve. Earlier in the week I made an advert and a lovely family contacted me interested in my lovely cavapoo girl I've had since she was a pup. They came to meet her, fell in love, bought her new things and they had a little girl who was just so excited. At heart wrenching as it was for me, I found comfort in the fact they were such a lovely family and would be spoiling her.
So this morning was the day I was to be dropping her off with her new family. We agreed a time and I started getting all of her things ready to take with her. All of a sudden my emotions got on top of me, I completely broke down, had a panic attack and the thought of never seeing her again was killing me!!! And now I have let this poor family down last minute, no doubt broken this little girls heart and I've caused them so much upset and grief I can't help but feel sick with pure guilt and hate towards myself. What do I do
I have a family friend that has seen the struggle I've been through today and theyve agreed to look after my dogs until I'm in a more stable situation. This wasnt an option that was on the table before today otherwise I would have chosen to do that before!!
Please can anyone offer some words of comfort as I just feel like the worst person in the world right now